Too often women have
been found responsible for the success or failure of their relationships with
men. Unfortunately, most of the women guilty of committing these blunders are
unaware of their roles in causing their own unhappiness or in their lack of
success in their relationships.
This post is written for
one purpose, to expose these mistakes and to proffer ways and means by which
you can avoid messing up your relationship by your own actions.
31 Stupid Things Women
Do That Mess Up Their Relationship.
Without wasting anymore
time I would like to go to outline some 31 mistakes which too many women end up
making and which tend to have a negative effect on the quality and success of
their relationships. Some of these mistakes may seem apparent enough while some
others may be less obvious. I would however like you to make no mistake of it.
I will discuss them in brief so as not to take up all your time.
1. Making the first move:
Men are supposed to come after women, they are supposed to show first intent,
and they ar supposed to make the first move.
2. Loving men who don't
love them:
3. Trying to buy a man's
love: True and lasting love is never for sale. The type of love that for sale
is fleeting and unstable.
4. Rushing into S3x:
5. Failing to develop
themselves: Some women sadly believe that all they have to do in life is to
pray that they have a great shape, pretty face and that they get lucky and find
a man who will marry them and get them pregnant. These days men want women who
don't want to come into the relationship to take, they also want a woman who
can give back to contribute some value into the relationship outside of the
usual contributions of kids and more bills. These days men want women who can
not only give love and bear him kids, they want a woman who can contribute
intellectually, socially, emotionally and sometimes financially also.
6. Playing house with him:
Never assume that a man will marry you if you move in and start living with
him.
7. Holding onto a past
relationship;
8. Trying to trap a man by getting pregnant;
9. Being over
possessive;
10. Tryin to re-make a
man; If you don't like the package, don't take it home. Don't ever get into a
relationship with a man with expectation that you will somehow and someday be
able to change him.
11. Becoming unnecessarily fussy and nagging;
12.Having a poor self-image;
13.
Neglecting to dress
properly;
14.
Having an unhealthy or hostile approach towards men; Men are human
and as such have feelings. Infact, it would appear that men are even more
sensitive than women when it comes to certain issues. Some women complain of
not having enough male suitors but the reason for this anomaly can easily be
traced in the way and manner in which they relate with men in a hostile and
impolite manner.
15.
Becoming unresponsive to
the needs of her man;
16.
Failing to appreciate your man's efforts to please you;
17.
Unfaithfulness
18.
Having zero tolerance for your man's shortcomings;
19.
Being unsupportive to their man's goals
20.
Neglecting to take care of your man's sexual needs;
21.
Criticizing him before his friends or in public;
22.
Letting their career take priority over their husband or family;
23.
Paying too much attention to the kids at the expense of nuturing
your relationship with your man; This one applies mostly to single mothers
searching for husband.
24.
Unreasonable display of pride; A woman who truly wants to
experience success in her relationship with her man whether it is on the level
of dating or marriage will do well to put her pride in check. We already know
that men have an ego problem so why try to compete with him in that area?
25.
Allowing the maid to fill the position of the wife in the house;
26.
Reluctance to submit to your man's leadership;
27.
Failing to pray for the family;
28.
Listening to hearsay;
29. Comparing her with other ladies men;
30.
Making unreasonable demand on your man; Before or shortly after
you decide to start dating a man you should have a healthy understanding of his
capabilities. If you have taken adequate time to study him and have asked the
right questions while you were both dating you should have a good idea of what
your man's strength and weaknesses are.
31.
Failing to see that a woman's physical beauty eventually fades
with time;
I am going to tell you why there are
lots of women who are of age out there but are not married. This is really not
the only reason why there are so many unmarried women in their 40's and 50's
but it's a very common one. When a girl get to the age of puberty and starts
developing breasts and an attractive figure she is suddenly overridden and
waves of male attention. This experience startles her because she is amazed at
the amount of attention men now suddenly give her when she walks down the
streets or into a room.
Then it all gets into her head. Rightly most women
decide to keep these guys at bay till they are ready to have a relationship.
But the problem is that lots of women at this stage in their lives quickly buy
into the misconception that it's easy to get a man because they are all eating
out of her hand at that point in her life.
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